I always talk about how your wedding day is just that "yours" and you should do it how you want to do it - including all the elements you'd like and excluding those you don't, no matter how traditional they may be. Ella & Ben's wedding exemplified this perfectly. From a traditional christian ceremony with songs loved by them both, to a game of rounders on the school field where Ben had attended which no one could have seen coming. This was their day and doing it exactly how they wanted was probably why they never stopped smiling.